March.3/14
Well hello March!!! It's been a year since we've seen each other!!! LOL!!
I freaking love that it's March!! Not only because of my hubby, and M.I.L's birthdays, but it means that the clocks "Spring" forward and the days start to get longer!!!
How are we all feeling today?? How was everyone's week?? Mine was pretty fabulous!! Got so much accomplished, and if I keep going the way I am, I'll be a shoe in for school, come September! The last week was full of excitment, both good and bad! I started another course, which I need to finish by may.2nd, but it's absolutely possible if I keep my mind to it! I started Trades Math, which focus's on Construction, Fabrication, Welding, Electricity, and Automotive. My instructor for Automotive said that if I took the course this year, then I would be able to have a free block next year.
Also last week, a very close friend confided in me that she may be pregnant. It was both happy and sad at the same time, b/c the person that aided in the pregnancy is a now druggie, and would certainly not help in any way, shape, or form. I don't know how she feels, b/c I've never had the option of aborting, and it's not like I would have anyways. I expressed to her that what ever desicion she made, I would support her 100%. I know her family dynamic and her parents would certainly have her out on her butt if she confronted them with this issue. Once we get all paper work back this week, I hope she will make the desicion that best suits her, and not anyone else.
Abortion. There's a touchy subject, and a severly debated topic. I am neither for or against it, but I do know that when I had my kids, it was something that I would have never even considered. It was something that just never crossed my mind. I know that in some cases it is absolutely nessecary to have such a procedure done, but in others, it kind of makes me mad. For example, my husband has a friend, *I think he's the biggest pile of shit on the face of this earth!*, and he was dating two girls at the same time. The one he was seeing the longest had become pregnant. He told her straight up he didn't want it and she had to get rid of it. Now with that being said, she "says" she wasn't allowed to have another baby for health reasons, and who are we to argue. She knows her body best. What really pissed me off about the whole situation was:
#1: He told her to get rid of it, b/c he simply didn't want it. Like if you didn't want to have another child, then you should have been smart and used protection
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#2: When the abortion was done and over with, the chick had a few days to recover, which I guess is normal. She then proceeds to tell me that she was excited to have it done and over with, and after it was done with she had the "best latte of life!" How does one go about their day knowing that they just aborted what could have been all care free like that?? Mind blown!!!!
Now I know I said I was neither for or against, and I still stand by that. However, it's the actions that others take, say, and do that make me mad. Now in my friends case, should she choose abortion, then again, I will stand by her side no matter what. I also gave her other suggestions like having the baby and puting him/her up for adoption. That is something she feels would destroy her even more, so again, that's the desicion she chose. I feel like if it's something that needs to be done b/c of health, then so be it. But don't brag about the fuckin' latte you had right after!! To me, it seems kind of heartless.
So the second girl he was seeing at the same time also became pregnant a month into them screwing around. Only this time, when he said he didn't want it, she told him to fuck off and that she was going to have it whether he liked it or not. B/c she stood up to him, he apparently fell "madly in love" with her, and they are now married. The only reason he stuck around with her, was b/c he didn't want to get fucked over with child support. I'm sure their feelings have changed, or at least I hope, but I think their relationship is the biggest sham!! But hey, that's just my opinion!
I think it takes huge balls for a woman to say, "I need to abort a pregnancy". It's not a desicion that is taken lightly. It's something that, that person has to live with for the rest of their lives.
Anyways, so back to my week!! LOL! Went to my parents on Saturday to get some wood split and in the house. It's been almost a month since I've been home with school, surgery, etc going on, I haven't really had the time. Needless to say, I had one very excited puppy who would not leave my side. Even when I went to leave, he was going to come with!!! It was awesome to go home and just relax, and feel at ease. It always feels great to be home!!
K well, I have to get school work done!! Chat at ya'll next week!!!
-V
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